This week our dear friend and sister Jana Swinney graduated from life under the sun to an eternity in God’s presence. Cancer took life from her body, but today she has a new body that is not only cancer free, but pain free in everyway.
As I prepare for the memorial service (this Friday, 10am in the auditorium), I think about Solomon’s words in Ecclesiastes 7:1-6 (NIV):
1 A good name is better than fine perfume,
and the day of death better than the day of birth.
2 It is better to go to a house of mourning
than to go to a house of feasting,
for death is the destiny of every man;
the living should take this to heart.
3 Sorrow is better than laughter,
because a sad face is good for the heart.
4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning,
but the heart of fools is in the house of pleasure.
5 It is better to heed a wise man’s rebuke
than to listen to the song of fools.
6 Like the crackling of thorns under the pot,
so is the laughter of fools.
This too is meaningless.
I’ll bet you’ve just about had enough of the positive thinking of Ecclesiastes! Can we really accept that “a sad face is good for the heart” (vs. 3)? What’s the point here? Verse 2 above helps us interpret the whole section. We will all die - period. With that reality, it should inform our daily decisions.
In poetic form, Solomon is saying that with death a reality and the brevity of life, we should take life seriously! Take that idea and every verse in the text above makes sense. Take life seriously! Make the most of every moment! In mourning we can see what’s most important. Don’t run from a confrontation. The way of fools is just that - foolishness. If we only center life on feasting and laughter and foolishness, we’ll miss the depth of life as God created it. Yes, we are to enjoy life and pleasure (8:15), but also use the times like a memorial service or a loss of any kind as a time to turn our hearts toward God.
Jana Swinney lived a great life. She touched many people. She was steadfast and faithful. She finished well. The day of her death was better than the day of her birth for she made the most of the days in between - to the glory of God. May our ending be better than our beginning! Think about that.
Glen
